People You Meet

Four people you will meet in life.
Life is the process of finding love; every person will need to find four people in their life.

First person is you, Second person is the one you love most, Third person is the one who love you most, And the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most doesn’t love you. The one, who loves you most, is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who loves you most.
He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people’s life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when they love you, they really love you. But when they don’t love you anymore, they really don’t love you anymore. When they love you, they can’t pretend that they don’t. Same goes, when they love you no more, there’s no way they can pretend they love you.

When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him/her, if you also don’t love him/her anymore, do not keep your lover just to save your pride. If you still love that person, you should wish him/her happiness, and hope that your loved one will be with the one he/she loves most, not stop him/her from it. If you stop him/her from finding true happiness with the one he/she loves, it shows you already don’t love him/her. And if you don’t love him/her, what rights do you have to blame him/her for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive, If you like the moon, you can’t just take it down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him/her become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him/her for what he is. Love him/her for his/her good points, and the bad. You can’t wish for your loved one to become like what you like that person to be just because you love him/her. If that person can’t change to become what you like him/her to be, you don’t love him/her anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him/her. You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test, if the relationship isn’t strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don’t trust each other, they don’t trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless: Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry. Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises; don’t make promises that you cannot keep.
Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually.
Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!!
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; The one saying, doesn’t believe; the one listening, also doesn’t believe. So what’s the point? Where’s the love?


16 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. jasonast
    Jul 15, 2008 @ 21:24:49

    Very interesting outlook, I enjoyed!



  2. fennychandra
    Jul 15, 2008 @ 21:28:50

    I hope I didn’t sound too cynical 🙂


  3. -TinTin-
    Jul 16, 2008 @ 09:53:36

    bulbomu menohokku,,,

    ya so sad klo 3 orang itu bkn orang yg sama…
    itulah kenapa kmrn aku bilang aku jadi sensi dengen kata “hope”


  4. fennychandra
    Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:10:20

    Seperti kata dosen HI saya yang sekarang sudah jadi Dekan (halo Pak Mochtar!), “Yang ideal itu tidak real!”
    It’s not necessarily a bad thing (not marrying the love of your life) if you with your spouse can make the marriage work. And in the end of your journey, when you’re old and gray, you’ll smile and know marrying him proven to be the best decision you’ve ever made 🙂
    Btw, don’t give up on hope. It’s the ascendant of love 😉


  5. thea
    Jul 16, 2008 @ 13:39:08

    I marry the one I love most and love me even more:)


  6. fennychandra
    Jul 16, 2008 @ 14:40:13

    Yang seberuntung dirimu itu kan ga banyak Te 🙂
    You should be always grateful 😉


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  8. fennychandra
    Jul 17, 2008 @ 15:14:20

    You can’t hurry love. You just have to wait. She said, Love don’t come easy. It’s a game of give and take.
    *let’s sing together*

    Anyway, is it still the rule of thumb of our 21st century love life? Love don’t come easy. True. So why wait? *scratching head in confusion*
    At least you do something on your part. You can’t just wait and hope the right guy knocks on your door with a bouquet in one hand and the engagement ring in the other 😉 To make it happen, DO SOMETHING!!!


  9. ogi
    Jul 17, 2008 @ 21:28:05

    kok sudut pandangnya cewek sih, mbok ya di generalin, heheh


  10. fennychandra
    Jul 17, 2008 @ 22:00:05

    Soalnya yang biasanya memusingkan hal2 seperti ini cewe sih hehehe… Tapi udah aku tambahin /she di semua yang ada he-nya 😉


  11. Abdee
    Jul 19, 2008 @ 14:09:29

    cowok juga bisa….


  12. fennychandra
    Jul 19, 2008 @ 16:38:07

    Cowok juga bisa apa dee? Bisa pusing mikirin percintaan? 😉


  13. fenny
    Jul 20, 2008 @ 00:16:39

    wew namanya sama…. btw salam kenal ajah de 😀


  14. fennychandra
    Jul 20, 2008 @ 11:44:39

    Hi Fenny 😀 Nama belakangmu bukan Chandra kan? Hehehehe….


  15. ламинат
    Aug 13, 2008 @ 23:48:25

    fbm Een plaatje zegt alles, toch ? wme Het volledige rapport is hier te vinden. Lees natuurlijk v de blogposting. g r
    Thanks for interesting post! xqg
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